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Ode to a Lemon

Last Wednesday, I got into our 2004 Dodge Durango to take M to school, turned the key in the ignition and heard a very loud ker-clunka clank. I immediately turned it off again, took M to school in the civic (our trusty Honda civic!), and called to have the Durango towed to the shop that handles our regular car maintenance. After 4 hours of tearing apart the engine, the guys at the shop discovered that the Durango had blown a rod and the only fix was a $7000 new engine. We were floored. We had just paid the Durango off last September, and less than a month ago spent a good chunk of money fixing the breaks and replacing the tires. We expected to be able to drive the Durango for another 100,000 miles or so before needing to replace it. This couldn’t have been more out of the blue.

After some internet research on the subject, we discovered that we were not alone. Turns out that a good many 2003 and 2004 Durangos have blown a rod right around 100,000 miles, rendering the car useless without a total engine replacement. Also turns out that, despite how common the problem is, Dodge (Chrysler) takes no responsibility and rarely aids its customers in covering costs. I called Chrysler customer service myself and was told quite politely (almost cheerfully) that there was no recall on our vehicle and Chrysler would not be able to cover our costs at this time.

We started the hunt for a new vehicle immediately.

In typical B fashion, he locked onto the problem and attacked it full on. I could not get him to relax. Which means that I could not relax. He was online reading consumer reports, memorizing safety specs and cargo area measurements. We were after a crossover model, so he looked up every manufacturer’s mid-sized crossover model. Then he started visiting the dealerships. On lunch breaks, after work, all day Saturday. And M and I were along for the ride. Literally. I think we test drove half a dozen cars—some of them twice.

It was exhausting.

The reason for this frenzied, exhaustive investigative search was that the Durango had been an impulse buy. I was 5 months pregnant with M, and at the time we had a pickup truck and a two-door Civic; nothing a baby seat would fit in. B found an add in the paper for a dealership demo that was on sale, so we went to the dealership to check it out, and ended up going home with it that afternoon. No research + “encouragement” from a shady car salesman = crappy Dodge Durango, dead at 6 years old. We were determined not to make the same mistake twice.

We did our homework this time, stacking up reliability ratings, customer satisfaction ratings, safety ratings, trim packages. We approached car salesmen as we might approach a rock that could possibly have a copperhead under it. We talked to all three of our dads (one of whom is actually a finance manager for a car dealership in Louisiana)—I’m sure they were all sick of hearing from us by the time we were done. We talked to anyone we new who drove any of the makes we were considering.

So, after our comprehensive, no-stone-left-unturned, 4-day search for a new vehicle, we finally settled on a new 2011 Toyota Rav4 with a lifetime unlimited power train warranty (just in case). Though we still feel sick about the Durango (did I mention that we had just finished paying off the Durango last September? Yeah. Good times.), and having to unexpectedly take on a new car payment (although we are able to fit it into our budget without it being a huge strain), we are immensely relieved to be done and over with this episode in our lives.

The Durango is dead. Long live the Rav4. Seriously. Like it better last at LEAST 15 years.

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On My 32nd Birthday

On my 32nd birthday, I am going to…

  • eat sushi with my husband, my best friend and her husband; without our kids.
  • possibly waste a little time playing Mario Galaxy on the Wii. Because I like it.

On my 32nd birthday, I feel…

  • not 32. I don’t know. How is one supposed to feel at 32?
  • Genuinely happy and content with my life. It’s been full of challenges, but even more full of blessings.
  • Extremely thankful for a husband who is both my friend and my love at the same time.
  • Profoundly thankful and thrilled to be mommy to a clever, cheerful, artful 6-year-old girl who keeps me constantly on my toes, and ever full of love.
  • Fulfilled in my work/job/business. I really love what I do.
  • Thankful towards my God, who has saved me from myself and my sin, and blesses me a million times over every day, even though I’ve done absolutely nothing to deserve it.

At 32 years old, I am enjoying…

  • Knitting
  • Chain maille (yes, like the armor…although I prefer to make jewelry out of it)
  • Web design (ever web design)
  • Video games (will I ever grow out of this? If I haven’t by now, I probably won’t)
  • Reading with my 6-year-old

On my 32nd birthday, I am reading…

  • The Book of John
  • The Gathering Storm by Robert Jordan and Brandon Sanderson (still)
  • The Prince by Machiavelli (just in case I need to take over the world someday)

At 32, I think my biggest accomplishments are…

  • My daughter
  • Completing a half-marathon
  • Starting and running my own business successfully
  • Surviving my husband’s 10-month military deployment, and coming out even a little stronger for the experience

My goals for my 33rd year are…

  • To keep running and improve my 5k time
  • To find contentment in the Lord and not my circumstances
  • To try to get outside of myself, and get to know people around me better

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First Day Jitters

Wednesday was Mia’s first day of kindergarten. She has been looking forward to this day since she was three. She used to watch the kids get off the school bus in our neighborhood and ask me when she would get to ride the bus to school. So when the day finally came, she was up and dressed before the sun, and when I got up and wandered out into the living room, she leapt off the couch with a wildly enthusiastic “It’s the first day of kindergarten!!!!” I explained to her that I would be taking her to school in the mornings, and then she would ride the bus home in the afternoon. She had always been excited about riding the bus, but on the actual day I expected her to possibly have some jitters about it. I asked her if she was okay with that arrangement. She shook her head.

“No, mommy, I don’t want to do it that way,” she said.

“Well, I’m happy to come pick you up from school if you don’t ride the bus,” I told her.

“No, no! I want to ride the bus to school in the morning AND the afternoon!”

I laughed at how mistaken I’d been. When I dropped her off at her classroom, she found the peg with her name on it and hung her bag up and then joined the other kids playing with puzzles, as if this was already a familiar routine. I had a call from her teacher later on in the day, assuring me that Mia handled her first day “like a pro.”

First Day of Kindergarten

So, apparently all the first-day jitters were on my end. I cried in the car on the way home from dropping her off. When it was time for her to come home on the bus I was out there fifteen minutes early waiting for her, and when the bus was ten minutes late I was dialing the bus transportation department. Thankfully, the line was busy because her bus came along five minutes later and she hopped happily off the bus, all aglow with the excitement of her first day. I guess there was nothing to worry about after all!

Hopping off the bus

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